Why Love Spells are a Really Bad Idea
72The only thing more popular than requests for money spells, it seems, are requests for love spells. You can even buy them on Ebay, but before you do, please fill in the blanks in this sentence:
A _____ and his_______ are soon _______. (hint: fool, money, parted)
In other words, you can pay upwards of twenty-five bucks, and no, the spell isn't more effective just because you spend more money. There's a pretty darn good chance that the person you Paypal your hard-earned cash to will take it and do something. Like fund his or her next vacation in Hawaii. Oh, your spell? Maybe, if they remember, they'll light a red candle for you.
You could have done that for free!
On the other hand, doing love spells in the first place really isn't that good an idea. Let me tell you why. Oh sure, you love him, you're obsessed with her, and maybe - just maybe - he or she really is someone you could spend the rest of your life with. But what if the object of your spell is secretly a drunk? Or abusive? Or a compulsive liar? Well, thanks to your "gimme, gimme" magickal working, you're kind of stuck now, aren't you?
But the biggest mark against love spells is that, all kidding aside, they're unethical. Think about it. How would you like to fall deeply and totally in love with the perfect someone, only to discover later that your feelings weren't real, but merely the result of a magickal working? Wouldn't you feel used? Lied to? Manipulated? And isn't that a really awful way to start a relationship? I wouldn't expect a romance based on lies and manipulation to last, would you?
If you wouldn't like a love spell cast on you, it's doubtful that the object of your affection would like it too much, either.
There is, however, one sort of love working that can be done - ethically - and with very good results, from what I've seen in my own life.
What you do is this: a spell for yourself, letting the Gods and the Universe know that you want love in your life. You send up a beacon on the astral (for want of a better word) that something in the one meant for you will respond to. And you'll find each other.
This takes time. It could take a year or more. In the meantime, do workings (magickal and non) that will make you a better candidate for a long-term relationship. If you need a better job, go out and find one. If you need to finish school, do so. Let go of past relationship baggage. Take care of your health. Be positive.
That's the best kind of magic there is!
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I agree completely. Great article.
this helped a lot
I still want to do a love spell. I'll rather have him fall for me than not at all.
Thanks...I knew that forcing someones will is bad. I was trying to find a lupe hole xD this is it babeh. lol. I'll make a charm using an item that sparks up a romantic feeling in me. Then I'll wait for that someone. Good advice..love spells are abit on the darker side of magic in my opinion cause they bend will. I don't want something fake..I want something real. Good post, and thank you.
Not all love spells are done in this manor. Some seek only to make you more prone to be noticed by a compatable person.
Love spells are a bad idea because they break the targets ability to function normally. They will become jealous of anyone, and can quickly result in you having acid thrown on you so that no-one else will ever find you attractive, or your eyes dug out with scissors so that you can't look at anyone else.
Love is the greatest destroyer, and when combined with witchcraft it makes for an unhealthy trigger finger.
I believe love spells work if the initial intent is born of love and only love. Meaning that after you do some soul searching and spend some time away and not bother your ex for a good three months, you still realize that you love them. I feel that you also have to ask yourself do you love them unconditionally? If so, then I think it is safe to proceed with a love spell because then you know your love is true and not based on your ego being bruised because of the feelings of hurt and abandonment. In my opinion, a good love spell will only enhance what is already there between you both. The other person may be blinded by lies and not be aware of the love. To me, timing is the most important element. If you do a spell right after the break up, then there is too much poison and you are doing the spell for the wrong reason and because of true love.
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I wish I never listened to the report made by Alejandro. It only caused me to hesitate and now he is booked for the rest of the week,Email is davidbamlaspell@gmail.com
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lola 4 years ago
I just want to say thank you for this advise i have been looking for something like love spell to get the special back but after reading this i felt stupid thinking about that you were bless to me